How does coronavirus really affect? Autobiography of a COVID-19 Patient and his family.

December 10, 2020


Past couple of weeks have been a havoc emotionally, physically, psychologically, financially and spiritually. I lost my father due to Covid-19. Before it occurred to us, honestly, we weren't paying much attention to this virus and considering news about it as a “hype” as that’s how mostly they present things in news everyday. Dad was the only person who was telling us that his brother in Canada is calling him periodically to make him realize how deadly this virus can be. So we should all be taking precautions and mustn't go out. Who knew that our non-seriousness would cost us so much for life.


We are a small family (my paternal family). A family of 4 (me, my brother, my mom and dad). After my marriage my father was feeling alive after long when my son came into this world since he had been a patient of depression for many years due to some incidences that he had faced since he had born and later as years passed. Nonetheless, crux of my father's life was that he never lived just for himself. He was always available for everyone in every thick and thin. He was a drummer when he was young and was in Moscow for his higher studies. Even, at the age of 65 (age at which he died), he had more energy, power, enthusiasm and spark than any of us youngsters in the family had. He was the nucleus of all wedding celebrations and musical events and gatherings since he sang and played bongos perfectly and like none other. But what I have learned is that those of us who make lives of other people easier and happier, are the ones who are left alone in life and at the time of need.

When he got sick, no one came. Obviously, sabko apni jaan pyari hai (Roman Urdu)..Everyone asked me to go back to my in-laws for the safety of myself and my son when dad was sick and was being looked after at home with oxygen mask on, along with chronic cough and fever. How could a daughter leave her father like this? At least not me. My father is equally beloved for me as much as my son is. In fact, I had spent 30 years with my dad, in short my whole life till date. There was no way I could leave him like this. I kept going to him without mask to make him eat, nebulize him, talk to him out of the fear he was developing in his mind regarding disturbed breathing and deadly corona and he never wanted to go to hospital. When he coughed, I could see the fear and worry in his eyes for us, as if he was feeling guilty of being a Covid patient and didn’t want any of us to catch it from him. My son was very much attached to him. He used to go out with him, sleep and eat with him. When dad was around, I was never worried about Zayan (my 2 year old).
When dad was being hospitalized, he fell from the stretcher while shifting in ambulance. My heart stopped a beat. This was the first time an ambulance came to our home or my dad was ever about to visit a hospital. So I couldn’t digest seeing him in this condition. We had to manage hospital visits, medicines, home matters, hospital expenses, conveyance, pick and drop and arranging shifts of day and night stay all by ourselves. None of our so called friends, family or relatives volunteered or even asked for the sake of just asking. Second last night of my father’s life, I, out of sheer frustration and being overburdened, had called and literally begged some of the people in my circle to offer their services for hospital shifts since my mother and my brother were exhausted and had gotten sick (cough, flu, fever, body pain, diarrhea and vomiting). Doctor strictly asked them not to come to hospital at any cost and arrange someone else to manage things at hospital.


June 28, 2020, at 10 a.m. I was arranging medicines for my mother as her lungs X-rays were not good. That was the time when I came to know dad’s oxygen saturation level had dropped again and was in 80’s. We got worried but not much as it kept fluctuating and my brother had talked with dad over phone that morning. Dad asked him to get him out of hospital as he said that he was tired of staying there and was feeling difficulty in breathing. At 2 p.m we got a phone call from hospital and came to know that the doctors had decided to put him on ventilator. We as a family got very much upset and were in a dilemma whether or not we should have him put on ventilator. Another call came, and we came to know that the “line is straight”, he is no more, the one who gave me life has himself given up on his. He had lost his heart. My father who had been fighting is battle with Corona since past 12 days, had given up as his 65 year old heart got tired of pumping heavily due to lack of oxygen. Oxygen had dropped to 65 and he had suffered a sudden cardiac arrest. Ahhh.. Dad, we are so sorry we couldn’t save you. You had always been our hero and a savior. Only if there was a way in medical sciences to donate my heartbeat and breadths to you. 

I had to skip the thought of my father’s death as my mother was next in line. Her condition was bad and family doctor had asked me to have her treated right away. I called many pharmacies and clinics if they could send someone to inject her with anti-clotting injection that was mandatory to be given to her right away but no one was willing to come home as we just had a death in our home due to Covid and my mother was also a Covid patient. Only a counted number of relatives came to our home and none stayed for long. I could see the fear in their eyes while hugging us for condolence. As if they were fulfilling a formality or as if there was an attendance chart where they had to mark their attendance. It was painful. The dead body came. I wanted to take him out of there and lie there instead. Couldn’t believe my eyes. The last I saw him was on bed, talking to us. And they took the coffin. My father was taken away from us to be buried. To a place from no one has ever came back and will never come. I was feeling like a triple personality person at that time: 1. The one who was in sheer mourning and state of shock and denial due to her father’s death. 2. One whose mother and brother were badly sick and had to keep herself together to make timely and right decisions for their treatment. 3. One who had to send her son away from her to her in-laws for the first time for his safety. In all this, there was no room for negligence, losing my mind, intolerance, going crazy or putting myself into a shell to avoid the situation. Certainly no room at all no matter how strongly I wanted to run away from all this.

Sooner I got to know, that I myself was a Covid-19 patient but asymptomatic (the one whose symptoms don’t show up). I didn’t pay much worry to it. I kept myself going with the flow for fulfilling my responsibilities towards rest of my family and my deceased father. We hadn’t seen anyone other than ourselves this whole time. People were calling for condolences but since mom and brother weren’t in good shape so again, it was me the whole time who was attending to all calls and messages for condolences as well as for asking about mom, brother and myself. And that’s why I had to put a status of requesting not to bombard me with long calls. Most of the people got offended by my status and taunted, bashed and insulted me for putting it instead of understanding the reason behind it. Additionally, I had to keep a check on my son too as I had to make sure my son and in-laws weren’t developing any symptoms. And off course, most importantly, I had to listen to doctors’ phone calls, messages, and feed backs and share reports with them along with arranging daily medications and lab men to have us tested.

Unfortunately, death only takes your loved ones away from you. It doesn’t take their responsibilities and errands along. Bills, daily matters, salaries, rents, taxes, groceries, utility needs all were intact and were waiting in line to be served. So since dad was no longer there, we had to take care of these matters as well. Death doesn't wait nor the worldly matters. Clock keeps ticking just the way it used to tick when dad was there.

Today, more than a month has passed since “the happening”. We all are okay (clinically). Covid had bestowed its mercy on the rest of us. Suffering through after effects of corona like weakness and depression along with facing two plated faces of people on daily basis, coming in contact with un-expected responses and behaviors of people for whom we were highly available every time. This trauma has slowed down our recovery and so has shown the insensitivity of people. We are alive, but feels like that one of our vital organ has been removed. There is not even a single day we don’t miss dad or cry for him. I cannot sleep unless I take some sleeping pill. I want to cry as much as I can as I had held in for long. But now, tears don’t accompany the pain in my heart. I used to be a talkative and lively one, now I don’t feel anything in me other than rage and sorrow. I know death is mortal. It is the act of God. But my pain is real too and alas, people were, are, have been and will be oblivious.

What is Coronavirus? Is wearing a mask enough? 14-days tenure Myth, Symptoms, Medications - Everything you need to know about the virus.

December 10, 2020

 This article is related to previous one (Death as I know it). As I have already entailed earlier that we as a family, weren’t taking Covid 19 seriously and as deadly as it should have been taken so we paid for it high time. Also a few of the factors that I’d say were our bad luck were that when we were caught into this mess, there wasn’t much awareness. For example:


Media was only showing 3 symptoms of Covid 19 attack i.e. Fever, Flu and cough. However Covid 19 can have any of the below symptoms:

·         Fever (which at times you yourself do not realize but it shows on Thermometer)

  • Cough 
  • Flu
  • Sneezes
  • Diarrhea
  • Vomiting
  • Difficulty in breathing
  • Losing taste and smell sense
  • Covid Toe


If you are at home and feel one of the above mentioned symptoms is there, start taking WHO recommended medications for initial stages and get hold of a doctor since doctors are not readily available in this case.

Commonly used medications are:

  • Azomax/Leflox/Macrobac (Formula of Azithromycin) 
  •  Rovista
  • Montika
  • Panadol
  • Cac1000
  • Zinc
  • Folic Acid

These are common medications with normal condition however, depending upon the condition of your lungs which will only be determined once you have your X-ray done if you are having severe cough or difficulty in breathing so in that case doctor will recommend you Anti-clotting injections or tablets (as per doctor’s advice) and steroids such as Dexamethasone or Prednisolone.

Note: Please be noted that I am not a doctor, I am a layman and you shouldn’t be taking any medication without doctor’s advice as certain people have allergic reactions to certain medicines and salts in them.

Wearing mask is just not enough:

Please be noted that wearing just a mask is not enough even if it is N-95. If you are using the same mask again and again without washing and drying in sun then it will not serve the purpose of saving you from germs rather germs will be there on it and if you or any of your kid will touch your mask from outside then it might not have your germs on the outer side but will definitely have germs of other people on it. So it is better to keep changing your mask every time you come from outside, remove it, bin it, wash your hands and use a new one. If you have N-95, it might not be possible to buy new one every time so wash it or sanitize it or disinfect it and put it in sun. Gloves do help but only if you dispose them every time. Otherwise, just keep a sanitizer or wash hands as much as you can.

Qehwa’s and Desi Totkas have aided the spread of this disease worse:

·         Trust me, other than the below mentioned desi totkas, none is helpful:

  • Taking bath with warm water and then using Detol while bathing
    Using phenyl or Detol cleaners while mopping
  • Drinking warm water
  • Having your nose cleaned with warm water
    Taking steam (which might be dangerous in case of a Blood pressure patient)
  • None of the below hyped desi totkas are workable, rather they waste your time, hype one’s blood pressure and cause diarrhea
  • Sanaa makki leaves (please don’t fall for this… this is for weight loss and causes diarrhea)
  • Other totkas for better breathing and clearing throat can be good but not for Corona. Corona is serious and must be dealt seriously
  • Yoga and breathing exercises do help
  • Staying positive does help
  • Will power does help


After effects:

After one recovers from corona, he/she feels depressed, lethargic, tired, exhausted and weak. Not to worry. Take care of your diet. Take supplements. Eat and drink healthy. It usually takes 2 to 3 months in totality from the day you fall a victim of corona till the time you recover fully.

14-days tenure of corona is a Myth:

You all must have heard that total tenure of corona (Covid – 19 ) is 14 days. First it takes 14 days for symptoms to appear and then it takes 14 days to go away. No it is not like that. Even WHO has now said that total tenure is of 21 days (depends case to case). From the day it gets detected to the time it gets negative. One must wait for at least 30 to 40 days to have oneself re-tested after treatment as many a times you get tested yourself after treatment it comes positive again. So let all the virus take its time to go away until you yourself and your body along with the test are all on the same page.


Another myth:

Corona virus doesn't always effect lungs. Pneumonia is one of the most common and classical case of corona virus. But in extreme cases it also can effect other vital organs such as heart, brain, kidney, liver etc. But generally people assume that if a man died with heart attack was not a victim of corona. He might be, you never know.

Do contests and free give-a-ways really help to get more customers?

June 30, 2020
Lucky or not?

Who doesn’t like the idea of getting something extra especially when it is totally free and you have been lucky enough to get it is as gift or win in a contest? This gives a feeling of being smarter than others, luckier, special, stronger, quick respondent and a feeling of being singled out from a group. For once it feels like a super star who is under everyone’s discussion and every other person of that group is comparing themselves with you. Now the question that puts some people into deep thoughts is that do contests and free give-a-ways really help? Let us review some basics about free give a ways and contests and by the end of this article you’d be able to figure out whether or not contests and free give-a-ways help.

From a business point of view contests and free give a ways help to bring in traffic to a great extent. People tend to read that post, respond to it, share it with their friends and do the needful. Once a winner is announced it:
  • Motivates others to keep an eye on the next one
  • Brings in new traffic and target people who have been tagged in previous post.

Bring in new followers

These new faces tag new friends and the circle goes on. Some people are so much enthusiastic to win that they keep trying until they actually win something. Whereas there surely are some who get disappointed, leave negative comments, criticize and vanish. Once a contest is over, number or visitors or involved followers drops for some time until you again involve your devoted followers and introduce new products and services to welcome one potential followers.

Cool Activity

Value of prizes doesn’t matter. Even if it’s a simple key chain, if someone wins it in a contest, he or she feels lucky and will definitely try again. Others try in competition to the first winner. But an important part of introducing a give a way or contest is that you should make it viral. Your gifts might be really awesome but what’s the point of bringing them in if the post hasn’t reached much viewers.

Tips to boost involvement
  •  Decide on the aim of the contest – improve website views, increase social media interaction that will result in visits, attract readers and make them come back more often, award referrals etc.
  • Decide on the best time to run the contest – when it's a season for contests (i.e. Christmas, Easter, etc.), off-season, major website celebrations.
  •  Decide what sort of contest you want – there are several forms of contest, so based on what you choose, you may challenge participants to perform easy or more complex activities. 
  •  Phase one in this course of action is crucial in deciding this thirsty move.
  • Think about some cool and desirable prizes – bonus tip – if you have multiple prices, don't include them all from the beginning, add them up from time to time if you realize you aren’t getting much response. 
  • Start looking for sponsors-either offer the prizes or pay them.
  •  Talk on whether to advertise the contest-social media outlets, email messages, contacting fellow bloggers, talking on time limits as well-how frequently to repeat the announcement and encourage entrants.
  • Get ready for the contest announcement, along with messages on social media – tweets, Facebook status update or special contest page if appropriate.
  • Be very specific about the rules – you can't go back to them later, so make sure they leave space for some unexpected circumstance, like spammers.
  •  Ensure continuous involvement and promoting your contest constantly.
  •  Announce winner on the exact date and time you have mentioned.

Cherry on top

Adding last minute surprise or additional item can be a cherry on top. Contests and free give a ways have become very common now especially on Instagram. They do play their role but only if people actually win. Thy help to promote you, your product and bring in more customers and followers. When winners will use your product (if the contest included your own products) then once they will use them, they will definitely leave a review. So it’s a win-win situation but only if people are actually winning and winners do come back with images of what they have won and reviews of how they feel. It’s a rule of thumb in marketing that people tend to believe general public in terms of entailing your product’s features rather than you yourself bragging about them.

Top 10 Most Profitable Niches And Reasons Of Their Profitability

March 30, 2020

Top 10 most profitable niches and reasons of their profitability

A few people, when first beginning their online business, center around making an item, fabricating their site, arranging marketing or advertising efforts, and setting up an internet shopping store/cart. They have this extraordinary thought for an item. It's a certain victor. So they build up an entire business around that item.

If you need to begin a beneficial online business with the best odds of prevailing out the entryway; you can't turn out badly entering a market that is already profitable

These are the 10 most gainful niches on the Internet:

1. Health

This is firmly identified with the wellness, fitness and weight reduction marketing and there is some cover, yet it's sufficiently distinctive to justify its own entrance onto the best 10 list.

Individuals nowadays like never before are bringing their wellbeing into their own hands. You've seen items in this niche all over the place: without gluten, natural cures, supplements, detoxing… recuperating expressions and results of different kinds. Anything that will advance a solid way of life that keeps away from infection and makes you live more.

Elective health is to a great degree prevalent here. We're not discussing standard prescription. These are fixes and elective medicines that the pharmaceutical organizations don't need you to think about all things considered.

The chances to benefit here are unlimited: books, supplements, data items, physical items, instructing, and so forth. Something else to remember is that there are continually going to be new development territories in this market.

2. Wellness and Weight Loss

For quite a long time, individuals have been fixated on shedding pounds and getting fit. Furthermore, they're continually searching for the following craze diet, practice program, or enchantment pill to enable them to do it.

Organizations have been in that spot with the ones looking to lose weight or are weight conscious with items helping them do only that: supplements, counts calories, health improvement plans, plans for diet and exercises, and that's only the tip of the iceberg. As an advertiser and marketer, you can't ever turn out badly on this specialty. Pretty much every statistic in each nation on the planet is into this.

Once more, don't let the possibility that this market is exceptionally jammed trick you into supposing you can't contend in it. Where there is a great deal of rivalry there are a lot of benefits to be made. Regardless of whether you just get a little bit of the pie; the market is so huge you can assemble a six or seven figure business in this market.

Weight reduction and Fitness will dependably be a demonstrated niche marketing that offers and anyone can snatch their bit of the pie, or should I say apple.

3. Devices and Technology

Regardless of whether it's a tablet or cell phone, PC speakers, mp3 players, shrewd gadgets for the home, thumb drives, cellphone cases, headphones… individuals are infatuated with contraptions and adornments. Everyone needs the most recent innovation. Furthermore, you can benefit from that in a couple of ways.

When you have the items dealt with, you need to center around advertising. One methodology is to profit blogging where you feature all the most recent tech and items going ahead the market.

4. Pets

Individuals love their pets. There are assessed 180 million cats and dogs in the U.S. alone. That is not notwithstanding specifying every one of the snakes, guinea pigs, parrots, and other more extraordinary animals individuals keep as friends. Furthermore, that you've been to a pet store, you realize that pet proprietors will save no cost and will purchase pretty much anything pet-relate.

Canine preparing is likewise an enormous market. At the point when individuals get a doggie, they need to potty prepare the canine. For more seasoned ones, individuals additionally need to prepare them for acquiescence, security, even to do traps. On the off chance that you have an energy for pet preparing you could make your very own data items - like digital books. Or on the other hand you could just offer books and courses of others as a partner.

The fact of the matter is numerous individuals treat their pets and spend more on their pets than they do on themselves, and this is a specialty or niche advertise that is just becoming greater and greater every year.

5. Dating and Relationships

Regardless of whether somebody is searching for a date or love or is into web based dating or is seeing someone battling and searching for an approach to revive the energy, an entire scope of items in the dating and connections specialty are there to help.

Organizations and businesses here incorporate advancing dating sites, huge numbers of which offer commissions to advertisers who send them new recruits. You could likewise advance "get" guides, books on building more grounded connections and correspondence, and the sky is the limit from there.

This is where there is a lot of chances to even niche. You could approach dating for straight couples, dating for gay couples, dating and relationship for certain religious gatherings, and so on the potential outcomes here are comprehensible.

Dating and connections, regardless of whether for single individuals, couples, separated from individuals, and so on will dependably be an immense niche advertisement that offers and is full with benefit potential.

6. Personal development

Otherwise called self improvement, this is an immense specialty on the web. There are courses and projects, books, recordings, web based preparing, training. Regardless of whether somebody needs to fabricate confidence, encounter vocation achievement, increment their certainty, set and accomplish objectives, defeat misfortune or deterrents… there is a personal development item out there.

You don't need to be a major name like Tony Robbins, Jack Canfield, or have a major brand like The Secret. A little bit of this enormous market can accommodate an exceptionally fruitful online business.

7. Internet Profit

You could make your own data items, courses, digital books, or training programs. Furthermore, if there are any projects or courses from other big-time advertisers that have been additional useful… you can advance those as well as a partner. You could be a piece of the following huge dispatch crusade.

Regardless of whether you're constructing an online business in any of these different specialties, you can show others the methodologies and strategies you've utilized online to manufacture your own business, making another side business of your own encourage web showcasing.

8. Magnificence Treatments

Having smoother more tightly skin, being more brilliant, deleting wrinkles. Looking more youthful and more alluring is an objective of numerous individuals. So any kind of creams, recipes, or comparative items that guarantee to take out or diminish the indications of maturing are exceptionally famous.

Hostile to maturing corrective medicines, healthy skin items, and more are a gigantic business.

9. Riches Building Through Investing

Let be honest, individuals need to profit. Also, they realize that stocks, bonds, choices, forex (money exchanging), prospects, and other venture items are an approach to do that. They've seen the news and each one of those fence stock investments tycoons and super-fruitful speculators trading in for spendable dough. They need to get in on the activity.

Regardless of whether the market is going up, down, or sideways… whether it's a subsidence, melancholy, or blast time… bull or bear advertise… speculation items do well. Since individuals dependably need to profit in the business sectors and you do as such regardless of how the economy is getting along.

Indeed, even this field is always observing new chances; at the present time Bitcoin and digital money are interesting issues individuals need to take in more about.

10. Individual Finance

FICO assessments, contract renegotiating, obligation alleviation, individual advances… there is a lack of necessities with regards to the individual fund niche. Individuals require help dealing with their cash or anchoring cash they requirement for vital costs.

You can likewise make e-learning and training items to enable individuals to explore these issues and enhance their money related circumstance.

Look at other online organizations in that specialty to perceive what they're doing to advance their items, similar to email advertising, promoting pipes, internet based life, and so on.

Display your new business on the "champs" you spot out there. Keep in mind that associate advertisement is an extraordinary method to begin with. You could likewise build up your own items as you develop your business on the web.

Making it work

Concentrating your endeavors on building a business in an officially well known niche is an extraordinary method to get your online endeavor off the ground. There's no mystery here. You know these are items individuals need… and they're founded on inborn human wants and needs that are failing to go away.

You'll have a tremendous head-begin in your statistical surveying and that implies you can be profiting on the web sooner than you thought conceivable. Regardless of whether you offer as a member or make your very own items, you're certain to have the makings of a productive online business.

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